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On the planet since 1973. Living in sin with M since 1997 and honestly since 2002. Failing at baby-making since 2005. And whining about it here since 2008. Come on in and sit a spell. This train wreck never seems to end.

Monday, March 10, 2008

It's negative

I knew it was a possibility, but I had no idea it would hurt this much.

Thanks for all the support. It means so much to me to come here and see you all rooting for me.

16 comments:

A - said...

Oh, shit. Not was I was hoping for or expecting B. I am so incredibly sorry and wish I could give you a hug right now.

Part of me is already planning out our next cycle - I think it is a defense mechanism. I wish you didn't have to go through this. :(

Polly Gamwich said...

I'm so sorry and so angry on your behalf. B, I so wish this wasn't the case.

kaaron said...

brenda, I know I posted in our bg already, but know I am thinking of you and am just so sorry about the bfn.

Karen said...

I think a BFN from IVF stings the most because you so gear yourself up to thinking it will work. I'm so sorry it didn't work for you this time. ((HUGS))

Alison said...

damn, I am so sorry B! This is so not fair :( I'll be thinking of you and hoping the pain will ease up soon.

MissNoAngel (find me on Twitter) said...

OMG, I am so, SO sorry!! ((big hugs))

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry hon. That totally sucks. :( ((hugs))

Anonymous said...

I'm really sorry. I was so hoping it would work out for you. (((hugs)))

Me said...

Oh Crap!!! I'm sorry!

Barb said...

I'm so sorry to hear that. :( Coming from Freyja's blog.

bb said...

So sorry. I know how much a negative hurts.

C said...

Brenda, I'm so sorry. a lot of (hugs)

Let It Be said...

I am so sorry, Brenda! (((HUGS))) I'm thinking of you a lot and sending my love and hope that you will get through this shitty pain. It's so unfair, and I wish you weren't going through it.

Anonymous said...

It does suck, it really, really sucks. I had a BFN from my first IVF in November. I thought IVF would be the magical answer for us, boy, was I wrong. I just went through cycle number two and I am in my 2WW. I have to say, IVF #2 was SO MUCH EASIER. It will get easier, I promise.

Lost in Space said...

Thanks so much for all your hugs and thoughts. Nobody IRL knows we are mourning what we consider a very real loss. It is so comforting to come here and know that you all get it. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Kathy said...

I am so sorry. What a loss. It's totally crappy. Wishing you all the best.